Do houses with inground pools deter you?

A good amount of houses in the town that I’m looking at have them. I personally love a pool, but my partner thinks it’s a huge upkeep, which is true. As a first time buyer, adding that to house maintenance could be a lot. Plus, it has a whole new layer of safety concerns when you have little kids.

My other concern is that some people say it could lower your resale value because it takes away a portion of buyers that do not want a pool.