Just talked to my old "conservative" friends... how do we salvage relationships?

Just had a conversation with some old friends. I usually avoid politics with them but they always snipe back and forth.... today I had enough and showed them the markets reaction and sited the Zelinsky debacle, terriffs, and the illegal dismantling of our institutions as the reason. Then I asked what would ther red line be... the answers terrified me... these are guys that stood in my wedding. One of them is my brother. Their answers: "I was hoping he would have started deporting democrats by now" "I would never vote against Trump" "Hard pill to swallow but democrats are a bigger threat to America than the Russians."

What level of hell are we on and how do we fucking get back from the brink?