DAE house get messy every day for seemingly no reason?

I love a clean house. I hate clutter.

But my house is messy ALL THE TIME. I will clean my kitchen from top to bottom, and within a week it's a mess again. Dishes piled up, junk on the counters. I can't seem to keep it clean and I have no idea why or how to manage it.

It's just me and my husband living here, too. But it feels like stuff piles up all the time, every week, and it drives me crazy.