Got the "no romantic connection" message again after another 1st date
We'd texted only a few times on the app before meeting. During the date we talked about a lot of shared hobbies, like TV shows, sports, and vacations. Also thought I let her know I'm successful at work without bragging too much and that I'm a fairly good athlete.
As I walked her to the car we were talking about the book vs movie for something we both read and watched. So I thought thing went well.
Got home and saw this:
"It was fun meeting you as well! I’m not feeling a connection as more than friends, but I enjoyed the time getting to know you and wish you the best! :)"
No joke this is the 10th time in a row I've heard a message like that and it makes me want to scream! I wish she told me I did something wrong or didn't like my voice or something, anything. I don't know what to change. The only thing I can think about it I was relating to her hobbies and telling her my experience with some of them (like music and painting) besides telling her about my athletic exploits and that I do weight training and don't know if that didn't come across as masculine enough?
What do you think of sending something like this back?
No problem. It was nice getting to know you and hear about your interesting hobbies. Wishing you the best of luck finding what you're looking for out there. Honestly this is about the 10th time I've gotten nearly the same message as yours so I'm going to do some soul searching on why I'm not forming connections with online dates.