Wrong Professional?

So for context, I wanted to start my lock journey. I went to a hairdresser that specializes in locks. I was told my hair was just too short to get starter locks so she recommended that I relax my hair. I went with it and let her do it. I've followed the tips to keep my hair in shape and I wash my hair 2 or 3 times a week. For my sanity, is this just the process or is this the end? I'm convinced I need to lob it off and start over but I'd like not to because of the growth before the relaxer. Any tips?