Can we talk about leaking…pee…?

I’m 51 and have been experiencing “stress incontinence” (leaking when I laugh, sneeze, cough, run, jump, or lift something heavy) for a few years. I wear either period underwear or a panty liner daily at this point but am looking at other solutions. Neither option feels very healthy/breathable long term. My OB says I may need surgery eventually, but I’m still fairly early days.

I recently saw an ad for a plastic device you put in your vagina that presses the urethra opening from the inside and prevents pee from leaking out. Poise makes a disposable that looks similar to a tampon. Amazon has a reusable one called Revive. Any experience or tips?