Curiosity on bachelor party norms and boundaries from a man's perspective

So, I have discussed a boundary of no naked women or strip clubs or anything like that and he said he was totally fine with that and said he wouldn't want me doing the same.

Well his friends are telling him that's controlling and that he should do it anyway and just not tell me.

I am interested from a man's perspective, are boundaries about these things considered controlling? Is it really too much to ask that my fiancé not be around a bunch of naked women lol?