Asian Parents Holding Grudges

It all started out random. I was sitting doing my homework, and out of nowhere, my mom asked me a question... misinterpreting her question was my first mistake.. she hit me soon after multiple times on the back because I didn't understand... but for some reason, I never reacted a different way usually tears sometimes just staying eerily calm, but this time I snapped I screamed back at her something that I've never done towards my mom.. from that day on she won't speak to me the same way. I eventually dropped my stubbornness and apologized.. however, she still won't talk to me. using sweeter tones with everyone and a harsh one with me, screaming my name, calling me different curses in her native language. I don't know how to fix it.. at this point.... she refuses to be in my presence at all.... and my dad goes along with it... i feel like ive disappointed both but now im just isolated....what do i even do?