Look to become dads, Adoption

Starting Our Adoption Journey – Looking for Insight and Advice

My partner and I are beginning to seriously consider adoption after years of discussing it. We’ve reached a point where we feel ready to provide a stable, loving environment, but we also know adoption isn’t something to enter into lightly.

I’m aware that adoption affects everyone involved, especially adoptees, and I want to approach this with care and respect. I’d love to hear from adoptees about their experiences—both positive and challenging. What do you wish prospective adoptive parents understood before starting this process? For adoptive parents, what were the biggest lessons or unexpected challenges you faced?

For single dads or gay couples who’ve adopted, what specific hurdles did you encounter? Are there any ethical, supportive agencies you’d recommend? I’ve had some negative experiences with faith-based agencies in my professional background, so I’d appreciate insight into navigating that aspect as well.

Finally, are there pitfalls, scams, or agencies to be wary of? I’m looking for honest advice on how to navigate adoption thoughtfully and responsibly.

Thanks in advance—I’m here to listen and learn.